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  • Early intervention services can help premature children thrive, but too few receive them

    Early intervention services can help premature children thrive, but too few receive them

    JOLIET, Ill. — After several challenging and stressful months in the neonatal intensive care unit, Karen Heath couldn’t wait to take her triplet sons home. The boys had been born severely premature at 25 weeks, each weighing a bit over a pound. In the early hours, doctors cautioned they would not survive long. The triplets, thankfully, proved the doctors wrong. But for about three months, Heath was not allowed to hold them, satisfying herself with photos, videos and kisses blown.

    The long-anticipated discharge in the early summer of 2019 was joyful, but also rushed and, as Heath recalls it, somewhat cavalier. An hour before release, a physical therapist showed Heath how to help the babies gain strength by gently stretching their legs out. A nurse gave her a quick tutorial on how to use the oxygen tanks they would need for the next couple of months. And Heath gathered together basic necessities and a few mementos: diapers, pacifiers, blood pressure cuffs and tiny hospital bands.

    But no one at the hospital, one of Chicago’s largest, told Heath or her husband what she felt would have been the most helpful advice in the long run: The triplets’ low birth weight alone meant they were automatically eligible for what’s known as early intervention services, which can include speech, physical, occupational and other therapies.

    “This should have been a conversation way before the boys were even released,” said Heath, who lives in Joliet, a city in the suburbs of Chicago. (She declined to identify the hospital to The Hechinger Report because her children still receive regular treatment there.) 

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    Doctors, and science more broadly, have made astounding gains in their capacity to save the lives of extremely premature babies, defined as those born before 28 weeks. In the 1960s, just 5 percent of premature infants with respiratory distress survived; now it’s about 90 percent.

    Despite these encouraging gains, there’s an abysmal record across the country, exemplified by Chicago, of helping these babies after they exit the NICU, particularly with access to the therapies that most reduce their risk of needing intensive, and expensive, special education services as schoolchildren. Many children who receive early intervention do not require special education services in kindergarten, including slightly less than half of those with developmental delays, according to one 2007 study.

    “We have so much information on early brain development now,” said Alison Liddle, a physical therapist in Chicago who is part of a team that studied access to early intervention in the city. One of the findings was that the system is difficult for parents to navigate. “Support systems have to catch up. We have a critical window to help families.” 

    Three of Vasquez’ four children received early intervention services as infants and toddlers. Credit: Camilla Forte/The Hechinger Report

    Federal law says children with developmental delays, including newborns with significant likelihood of a delay, can get early intervention from birth to age 3. States design their own programs and set their own funding levels, however. They also set some of the criteria for which newborns are automatically eligible, typically relying on qualifying conditions like Down syndrome or cerebral palsy, extreme prematurity or low birthweight. Nationally, far fewer infants and toddlers receive the therapies than should. The stats are particularly bleak for babies under the age of 1: Just 1 percent of these infants get help. Yet an estimated 13 percent of infants and toddlers likely qualify.

    “It’s like people being told at 65 that they are eligible for Social Security and a year later they are not on either Social Security or Medicare,” said Dr. Michael Msall, a neurodevelopmental pediatrician who has led efforts on early intervention access at the University of Chicago’s hospital system and is on the study team. “We’d have riots in the streets.”

    The stakes are high for these fragile, rapidly growing babies and their brains. Even a few months of additional therapy can reduce a child’s risk of complications and make it less likely that they will struggle with talking, moving and learning down the road. In Chicago and elsewhere, families, advocates and physicians say a lot of the failures boil down to overstretched hospital and early intervention delivery systems that are not always talking with families very effectively, or with each other hardly at all. “They really put the onus of helping your child get better outcomes on you,” said Jaclyn Vasquez, an early childhood consultant who has had three babies of her own spend time in the NICU.

    Related: Black and Latino infants and toddlers often miss out on early therapies they need

    Hospitals use different processes for educating families about early intervention, which often occurs at an overwhelming time for parents. “That initial connection with the families is tricky because the families tend to be very busy when they take the baby home,” said Dr. Raye-Ann deRegnier, the lead physician on the study and director of the Early Childhood Clinic at Lurie Children’s.

    At Lurie and Chicago’s Prentice Women’s Hospital, where deRegnier works, the physical therapists are generally responsible for informing families of early intervention. “I wouldn’t say that happens in every NICU,” she said. “Sometimes it’s discharge nurses, sometimes discharge coordinators, sometimes others.”

    Under the current landscape, it’s helpful when physical therapists have conversations with families early and often, deRegnier said. But even when that happens, miscommunications can occur. The doctor said she recently made a point to talk to a mother about early intervention, and the woman said she had never heard of it. Yet the physical therapist had previously had a lengthy conversation with the mother about the program.

    In Illinois three years ago, the state’s Legislative Black Caucus urged the creation of demonstration projects at neonatal intensive care units in hospitals, intended to model how to better connect families to services. The state’s General Assembly supported the idea, but no funding was attached to the recommendation, and it has not become a reality.

    However, a coalition of therapists and hospital physicians, including deRegnier, has been working on a pilot study that included a look at barriers that families face after they leave the NICU at several of Chicago’s largest hospitals. 

    Their findings, published in late December, show that only 13 percent of the 60 families — all of them Medicaid eligible and with infants who automatically qualified for early intervention — were receiving those therapies three to four months after discharge. In Illinois, the therapies are overseen by the state’s Department of Human Services and its Division of Early Childhood. While the specific reasons varied, most of it came down to bureaucracy and bad communication, according to the study team. 

    “When you make the system so difficult to navigate, families give up,” Liddle said. “There were many families just waiting out there for services that they really need.”

    Every weekday afternoon after play time, Karen Heath’s children, including her 5-year-old triplets, read books with their grandmother. Credit: Camilla Forte/The Hechinger Report

    By the end of June 2019, Heath’s triplets were all at home along with their 1-year-old brother. Although her husband had to return to work, Heath’s mother was around to help. The family had little idea of how best to support their growth. Doctors had warned her that the boys might never be able to sit up, walk or communicate like other children. “My main focus for so long was on coming home,” she said. “Once we got home, I’m like, ‘Now what?’”

    About two weeks after the homecoming, a nurse from the county stopped by to check in on the 6-month-olds. Heath can’t say for sure, but she believes that the woman must have made a referral to early intervention because several weeks later, in August, the family got a call saying that the triplets might be eligible for therapy. By that time, they were more than 7 months old.

    Heath leapt at the opportunity, but the process moved slowly after the initial call. In October, when the boys were 9 months, Heath got word that they had been automatically eligible all along because of low birth weight. But it wasn’t until early 2020, after the boys celebrated their first birthday, that the therapy was scheduled to start.

    Then the pandemic hit, so the initial physical and developmental therapy sessions with three near-toddlers were all attempted over Zoom. “The boys were uninterested,” their mother recalled. “Try doing therapy on an iPad with triplets and (a toddler) hanging around.” 

    It wasn’t until the summer, when the children were 18 months, that they got their first in-person therapy. “The hospital should have had something in place so these kids could have gotten the services as soon as they came home,” Heath said. “I really feel like they dropped the ball. No one can blame the pandemic because they came home way before Covid started.”

    Family photos, including from her triplets’ lengthy stays in the hospital, line the walls of Karen Heath’s living room. Credit: Camilla Forte/The Hechinger Report

    The families participating in the multihospital pilot study had a leg up on Heath: They were at least told about early intervention, with an initial referral made before leaving the NICU. But even that was not enough for most of them to connect successfully with help. A lot of the struggle came down to “logistical and technological barriers,” said Zareen Kamal, a policy specialist in Illinois for Start Early, which advocates on early childhood issues.

    The early intervention system in Illinois is decentralized, with 25 coordinating offices across the state. Caseloads are supposed to be capped at 45, but due to underfunding and short staffing, average much higher, with some reports of service coordinators juggling over 100 families. Many of the offices rely on fax for communications, with no statewide electronic system in place. Incoming phone calls to families from the coordinators often register as spam. And most of the offices don’t staff the phones in the evening or weekends, when working parents are most likely to reach out. 

    All this means that case workers sometimes remove families from their list as “uninterested” when, in fact, the parents are unaware, or unsure how to take the next step.

    Related: Six ideas to ease the early intervention staffing crisis

    The state is currently taking steps to ensure equitable access to early intervention, said a spokeswoman for the Department of Human Services in an e-mail. That includes updating the standardized referral form and exploring options for electronic referrals.

    “We realize that technology needs to be modernized,” wrote Rachel Otwell, the spokesperson.

    That said, phone and fax remain the primary means of communication due to privacy concerns, she said.

    Otwell said the agency is engaged in ongoing surveys and focus groups with thousands of early childhood community members. The state has made progress with staffing vacancies in early intervention, she added, and remains focused on “lowering caseloads to recommended levels.” 

    As the early intervention system currently exists in many cities and states, inequities are baked into every step of the process. Lower-income families are less likely to receive timely referrals, get screened and approved expeditiously, and then connect with therapists available for in-person work. Families with private insurance can often bypass the multistep bureaucratic process by having the therapies covered through those benefits. Studies have shown that Black newborns for a host of reasons, including higher poverty rates and weaker early medical care on average, are five times less likely than white ones to receive early intervention services.

    In addition to early exposure to critical therapies, Vasquez says that strong sibling relationships and support has helped her children to thrive. Credit: Camilla Forte/The Hechinger Report

    For newborns there is pervasive confusion around who is automatically eligible, even among those who work in the early intervention system, Liddle says. “Some children are turned away from receiving services despite being autoeligible, because they do not show a delay on a specific assessment tool,” she said.

    Complicating matters, states have different eligibility criteria: In some states, an infant with lead poisoning or a parent with a mental health diagnosis qualifies for the therapies, whereas in others they do not.

    There’s also a disconnect between the medical and early intervention systems, said Msall, the University of Chicago-based physician. His colleagues in NICUs routinely fax referrals over to early intervention, he said, but the information disappears into the ether, with no follow up or technology in place for the physician to know if the connection was made or what an initial evaluation found. DeRegnier agreed that the follow-up process is complicated, partly because families may need to sign a consent form for information to be shared even with physicians.

    In a nutshell, families too often have to navigate through the system entirely on their own — with only the most knowledgeable and well resourced likely to find their way to a successful outcome.

    Vasquez felt immensely grateful her background as a special education teacher made it easier to supplement the work of overstretched hospital staff when her twin daughters were born at 27 weeks four years ago. The smaller of the two spent over a year so medicated in a Chicago NICU that she was essentially in a medical coma. But as soon as possible, Vasquez and her husband stepped in to help provide some early therapies. Following the advice of hospital therapists, they helped her sit up, roll over, learn to play with toys and regularly gave her full body massages. (She didn’t want to name the hospital because she believes any shortcomings were reflective of systemic issues, not specific to that hospital.)

    Then, when the baby was finally released after 19 months in the NICU, Vasquez knew to call early intervention without delay. The family wasn’t more than five minutes into their drive home before she picked up her cellphone and rang them up from the back seat. “There was no second to lose,” said Vasquez, whose work as an early childhood consultant focuses on equity.

    Within weeks of arriving home, the baby started upward of a half dozen different therapies, including speech, nutrition and mobility. 

    Partly because of the quick introduction to therapies, formal and informal, Vasquez’s daughter is thriving today at the age of 4. The girl had to spend only a few months in a self-contained classroom for children with severe disabilities before teachers said she was ready to join the “blended” class. It’s a milestone that seemed unreachable just a couple of years ago.

    “After six months (in school), they said she is doing awesome,” Vasquez said. “I was told my child would need a wheelchair by kindergarten. She is running, dancing, chasing siblings, dancing on trampolines — all because of the amount of time we poured into therapies at a very young age.”

    Jaclyn Vasquez plays outdoors with her children on a fall weekend afternoon. She says her background in special education made it easier to help with early therapies they needed. Credit: Camilla Forte/The Hechinger Report

    Physicians, advocates and families all agree that parents shouldn’t have to wait until leaving the NICU to begin lining up services. The coalition of groups working on the study recommend staff embedded at the hospitals who can help families enroll in early intervention before discharge. Each family who is automatically eligible would also leave the hospital with a legal document entitling them to therapy. “Our ultimate dream is to have the connection between [early intervention] and families be completed before they go home, and have the therapist assigned before they leave,” said deRegnier.

    Many advocates also believe that for those babies on an extended stay in the hospital, those therapies should be available in the NICU. “Early intervention is birth to 3 — it shouldn’t matter if you are living in the hospital or at home,” Liddle said. “You are still entitled to those services.”

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    In Illinois, advocates say they hope to get funding to pilot a program at a few NICUs that would finally create the demonstration sites the Legislative Black Caucus called for years ago. If successful, the model could be expanded statewide. “Even if we are in one or two NICUs and can see how it turns out, that would be helpful,” says Illinois state Rep. Joyce Mason, who chairs the House committee focused on early childhood education.

    In the meantime, too many families still find the crucial therapies to be elusive.

    Even when Heath’s children finally started in-person therapy, it was limited in scope. The physical therapist, who Heath describes as an “angel,” quickly recognized that they should also be receiving other help as well, including speech and occupational therapy. Yet by the time the family worked through the bureaucratic machinery to get some of those in place, the boys were nearly 3 — close to aging out of early intervention. They received a few months of speech, but never got the occupational therapy they were entitled to.

    If they had gotten the therapies earlier, “they would be in a different place at this point,” Heath says. The boys, who were diagnosed with cerebral palsy shortly before their fourth birthdays, struggle with speech and reading skills, in particular, with one of them requiring a device in order to express himself. “If you don’t know them well, it’s hard to understand what they are saying all the time,” Heath says. “If they had gotten all the services right off the bat, they wouldn’t be as far behind.” 

    Yet the triplets have long surpassed doctors’ early warnings that they might never sit up, walk or reach other developmental milestones. Newly arrived home from school on a clear fall afternoon not long before Halloween, the triplets, now in kindergarten and dressed as Spider-Man for “superhero” day, played exuberantly in a finished basement space. They cried out gleefully while zooming after each other in miniature bumper cars.

    Heath is grateful her sons are progressing with the help of school, devoted family and the committed physical therapist, who still works with the boys. But she looks back at their first nine months and laments that, so focused on how to help the babies survive, no one in a vast team of doctors, nurses and social workers thought to discuss how the family could best help them thrive. “There was no next step for my family when we left the hospital,” she said. “It was all on us.”

    Contact Sarah Carr at [email protected].

    This story about early intervention services was produced by The Hechinger Report, a nonprofit, independent news organization focused on inequality and innovation in education. Carr is a fellow at New America, focused on reporting on early childhood issues.

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  • The Key Aspects to Keeping Children Safe Online

    The Key Aspects to Keeping Children Safe Online

    In today’s digital age, ensuring student safety online is a top priority for both parents and schools. Technology has opened new doors for enhancing student learning and engagement, but it also requires thoughtful strategies to ensure students remain safe.

    As schools embrace these technological advancements, both parents and administrators must work together to implement safety measures and address the evolving responsibilities that come with digital education. Experts from the Association for Educational Communications and Technology (AECT) share their insights on how to navigate these opportunities effectively while keeping students safe.

    Evolving safety protocols

    Cathy Leavitt, an instructional technologist and AECT member, explains that schools have increasingly adopted tools to safeguard students on digital platforms. “There are great apps and software that record what children are doing on devices,” Leavitt notes, emphasizing the importance of tools that monitor and restrict access to harmful content. However, technology alone isn’t enough. Leavitt stresses that digital literacy is vital to fostering a safe online environment, teaching students how to navigate the digital world responsibly.

    The importance of digital literacy

    Bruce DuBoff, Ph.D., past president of the NJ Association of School Librarians and nominated Ethics Officer for AECT, identifies a gap between today’s digital skills and the safety practices needed in schools. “We live in a world rocked by Future Shock,” DuBoff says, which describes the rapid technological advancements that have outpaced current educational approaches. He advocates for early education in ethical online behavior, with librarians playing a pivotal role in integrating technologies like podcasting, game design, and web development, which not only enhance learning but also ensure safe online engagement.

    Dr. DuBoff argues that the biggest threat isn’t Artificial Intelligence (AI) but the social media algorithms that create information silos, limiting students’ exposure to diverse viewpoints. By educating students on the risks of these algorithms and promoting digital literacy programs like Common Sense Education’s Digital Citizenship curriculum, schools can better equip students to navigate the online world safely.

    The role of parents

    Parental involvement is essential in maintaining online safety. Leavitt advocates for parents to monitor their children’s digital activities, even if it might feel like an invasion of privacy. She calls for a “unified approach” between schools and parents, with regular communication to ensure parents understand the risks their children face online. Schools play a crucial role by educating parents as much as students and providing ongoing resources to reinforce safe practices at home.

    Cybersecurity and administrative challenges

    As schools adopt more digital learning platforms, cybersecurity threats such as data breaches and cyberattacks have escalated. Leavitt points out that strong security measures such as two-factor authentication and regular updates are critical to safeguarding student data. However, these measures introduce additional challenges for school administrators, who must balance tight budgets and manage the growing costs of technology maintenance and staff training. Schools need to allocate resources strategically, ensuring that cybersecurity is prioritized without unnecessary overspending.

    Moving forward

    Keeping students safe in the digital world increasingly requires collaboration and a unified approach between parents, teachers, and administrators at schools. Open communication between all three groups from a common framework of understanding provided in comprehensive digital literacy programs combined with strong cybersecurity measures are essential to creating safer online environments for our loved ones while managing the administrative challenges that come with these advancements.

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  • 15 Toxic Things Parents Say to their Children (2024)

    15 Toxic Things Parents Say to their Children (2024)

    Parents play a crucial role in shaping their children’s self-esteem and emotional well-being. However, certain words and behaviors can unintentionally cause harm, leading to long-lasting emotional damage.

    Toxic remarks or actions, whether intentional or not, can make children feel unworthy, insecure, or neglected.

    In this article, we’ll explore specific examples of harmful things parents might say or do and how these behaviors can negatively impact a child’s development.

    Toxic Things Parents Say to their Children

    1. Dismissing Accomplishments

    Example: “Oh, you got a B? That’s not impressive, anyone can do that.”

    Explanation: Dismissing a child’s achievements, no matter how small, invalidates their efforts and can make them feel like nothing they do is ever good enough. This constant dismissal leads to a lack of motivation and self-confidence, as the child internalizes that their hard work or success will never be acknowledged or appreciated by those they seek validation from the most.

    2. Playing Favorites

    Example: “Your sister is my favorite because she never gives me trouble like you do.”

    Explanation: Playing favorites creates rivalry and animosity between siblings and fosters resentment in the child who feels less loved. This favoritism can lead to long-lasting emotional scars, causing the unfavored child to constantly seek approval or attention in unhealthy ways. It erodes trust and connection in the parent-child relationship, as the child feels unworthy of their parent’s affection.

    3. Undermining Confidence

    Example: “You’ll never be able to do that. Why even try?”

    Explanation: Telling a child they aren’t capable of something kills their confidence and discourages them from trying new things. This type of remark plants seeds of self-doubt, making the child feel incompetent or inferior. Over time, the child may start to believe that they aren’t capable of success, leading to low self-esteem and a fear of failure.

    4. Public Shaming

    Example: “Why can’t you act right? You’re embarrassing me in front of everyone!”

    Explanation: Publicly shaming a child humiliates them and damages their sense of self-worth. It turns the focus from correcting behavior to making the child feel ashamed of who they are, especially when it happens in front of others. This approach not only harms their self-esteem but also teaches them that mistakes are something to hide, rather than opportunities to learn and grow.

    5. Threatening Abandonment

    Example: “If you don’t behave, I’ll just leave you here.”

    Explanation: Threatening to abandon a child, even in jest, can create deep fears of abandonment and insecurity. It undermines the child’s trust in their parents and can cause long-lasting emotional trauma. Children rely on their parents for safety and security, and threatening to remove that support can lead to anxiety and a fear of being unloved or unwanted.

    6. Silent Treatment

    Example: Ignoring the child for days after they’ve done something wrong.

    Explanation: The silent treatment is a form of emotional manipulation and punishment that isolates the child, leaving them to feel abandoned and confused. Instead of resolving conflict in a healthy way, this behavior teaches the child that love and attention are conditional. It can create anxiety, a fear of confrontation, and a deep sense of insecurity in their relationship with their parents.

    7. Critiquing everyday Actions

    Example: “Why are you always so lazy? Don’t you care about anything?”

    Explanation: This type of question is designed to provoke shame rather than address the behavior. It paints the child as inherently flawed instead of focusing on the specific issue. This can lead to feelings of guilt, frustration, and confusion about their identity, as the child is made to feel their actions are linked to their worth as a person.

    8. Commenting Negatively about Their Appearance

    Example: “You’d be so much prettier if you lost some weight.”

    Explanation: Comments like this damage a child’s self-esteem and body image, making them feel inadequate. Constant criticism of appearance can lead to long-term issues like body dysmorphia, eating disorders, and self-worth problems. Children begin to internalize that their value is tied to their looks, rather than who they are.

    9. Unhealthy Comparisons

    Example: “Why can’t you be more like your brother? He always gets good grades.”

    Explanation: Comparing a child to a sibling or peer can cause resentment, insecurity, and a constant feeling of inadequacy. This type of remark fosters competition rather than support, leaving the child feeling that no matter what they do, they will never measure up. Over time, it can damage self-esteem and create unnecessary tension within the family dynamic.

    10. Overreacting to Mistakes

    Example: “I can’t believe you did that! You’ve ruined everything!”

    Explanation: Overreacting to a child’s mistake makes them feel like their errors define them and are unforgivable. This kind of extreme response can cause the child to fear failure or mistakes, leading them to become overly cautious or anxious. It also discourages them from taking risks or trying new things, as they begin to associate making mistakes with extreme disappointment and anger from their parents.

    11. Empty Promises

    Example: “I’ll take you to the park this weekend, I promise,” but it never happens.

    Explanation: When parents repeatedly make promises they don’t keep, it breaks trust and makes the child feel unimportant. This can lead to disillusionment, where the child stops believing in what their parent says. Over time, the child might become less emotionally attached or stop relying on the parent, leading to feelings of betrayal and disappointment.

    12. Refusing to Apologize

    Example: “I’m the parent, I don’t have to say sorry to you.”

    Explanation: When parents refuse to apologize, they teach children that accountability and taking responsibility for mistakes is unnecessary, especially if you’re in a position of power. This can erode trust and respect between the parent and child, as the child may feel that their feelings are invalid. Apologizing models humility and empathy, and without it, children may grow up with a distorted view of conflict resolution and respect.

    13. Making Jokes at the Child’s Expense

    Example: “You’re such a klutz, no wonder you can’t do anything right.”

    Explanation: Joking at a child’s expense under the guise of humor can feel like betrayal, especially if the parent downplays their emotions by saying, “It’s just a joke.” These remarks hurt because they often highlight insecurities or flaws the child is already self-conscious about. Over time, this behavior can cause deep emotional wounds and lead the child to doubt their abilities, even when meant in a lighthearted way.

    14. Selfish Commentary

    Example: “I wish I never had kids. My life would’ve been so much better.”

    Explanation: This statement makes the child feel like an unwanted burden and deeply impacts their emotional security. When a parent expresses regret over having children, it communicates that the child is the root cause of their unhappiness. This can lead to feelings of rejection, unworthiness, and emotional neglect.

    15. Making the Child Feel Like a Burden

    Example: “You’re such a hassle. I can’t do anything because of you.”

    Explanation: Statements like this frame the child as an obstacle to their parent’s happiness or freedom. It fosters guilt and self-blame, making the child feel like they are in the way or a nuisance. Over time, this can erode their sense of belonging and make them believe they are undeserving of love and care.


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    Dr. Chris Drew is the founder of the Helpful Professor. He holds a PhD in education and has published over 20 articles in scholarly journals. He is the former editor of the Journal of Learning Development in Higher Education. [Image Descriptor: Photo of Chris]

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